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THE HATERS

Age rating, content warnings & parent guide

Jesse Andrews

Is THE HATERS appropriate for your child? See the reviewed age guidance, content cautions, positive themes, and supporting evidence below.

Three band mates ditch jazz camp for life on tour and the search for the perfect set. (Ages 14 and up)

Ages 14+Source checked

Why this age? Teen characters use strong language, make reckless choices, encounter sexual and substance-related situations, and face emotionally complicated friendship and relationship issues. This is guidance, not a safety guarantee; reading level and family context may differ.

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Age guidanceAges 14+
Strongest cautionsStrong language 4/5 · Alcohol or drugs 3/5 · Romance 3/5
Strongest positivesCreativity & curiosity 4/5 · Courage & resilience 3/5
Recommendation3/5

Creativity & curiosity; strongest caution: strong language.

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What parents should know

Teen characters use strong language, make reckless choices, encounter sexual and substance-related situations, and face emotionally complicated friendship and relationship issues. This is guidance, not a safety guarantee; reading level and family context may differ. Creativity & curiosity; strongest caution: strong language.

Readiness snapshotAge guidance: 14+Main watch-out: Strong language 4/5
Recommendation 3/5

Editorial rating

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Recommended age14+

Strongest cautions

  • Strong language4/5
  • Alcohol or drugs3/5
  • Romance3/5

Strongest positives

  • Creativity & curiosity4/5
  • Courage & resilience3/5
  • Positive messages3/5

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What’s in it?

Products & advertising1/5
Why this rating?

Occasional mentions of music equipment brands.

Strong language4/5
Why this rating?

Frequent use of strong language and profanity common in teen dialogue.

Romance3/5
Why this rating?

Teen romance and sexual tension are present as the protagonists navigate feelings for each other.

Frightening scenes1/5
Why this rating?

Some uncertainty and tension arise from teens being unsupervised and in risky situations, but the tone is comic and not genuinely frightening.

Sexual content & nudity3/5
Why this rating?

Includes sexual references, discussions of relationships, and implied encounters.

Alcohol or drugs3/5
Why this rating?

Regular references to alcohol and drug experimentation among the teenage protagonists.

Violence2/5
Why this rating?

Occasional instances of minor physical conflict and frustration-fueled outbursts.

What’s good in it?

Courage & resilience3/5
Why this rating?

Characters show courage in pursuing their music and addressing personal insecurities.

Creativity & curiosity4/5
Why this rating?

Strong emphasis on musical expression and the struggle to create something authentic.

Diverse representation2/5
Why this rating?

Diverse background elements are present but the focus remains on the specific trio dynamic.

Educational value1/5
Why this rating?

Provides insight into music culture and the collaborative creative process.

Kindness & empathy2/5
Why this rating?

Kindness is shown in moments of connection, though often strained by the characters' egos.

Positive messages3/5
Why this rating?

Explores themes of artistic integrity, friendship, and the difficult transition to adulthood.

Good role models2/5
Why this rating?

Characters are flawed, messy, and prone to poor decision-making, reflecting realistic adolescent growth.

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