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SHE GETS THE GIRL

Age rating, content warnings & parent guide

Rachael Lippincott and Alyson Derrick

Is SHE GETS THE GIRL appropriate for your child? See the reviewed age guidance, content cautions, positive themes, and supporting evidence below.

Two young women, Alex and Molly, attend the University of Pittsburgh with the intention of reinventing themselves. (Ages 14 and up)

Ages 14+Source checked

Why this age? The novel contains sustained LGBTQIA+ romance, kissing, emotional relationship conflict, some profanity, and college-party substance references, but no explicit sexual content or graphic violence. This is guidance, not a safety guarantee; reading level and family context may differ.

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Age guidanceAges 14+
Strongest cautionsLGBTQIA characters 5/5 · Romance 5/5 · Alcohol or drugs 2/5
Strongest positivesPositive messages 4/5 · Courage & resilience 3/5
Recommendation3.3/5

Positive messages; strongest caution: lgbtqia characters.

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What parents should know

The novel contains sustained LGBTQIA+ romance, kissing, emotional relationship conflict, some profanity, and college-party substance references, but no explicit sexual content or graphic violence. This is guidance, not a safety guarantee; reading level and family context may differ. Positive messages; strongest caution: lgbtqia characters.

Readiness snapshotAge guidance: 14+Main watch-out: LGBTQIA characters 5/5
Recommendation 3.3/5

Editorial rating

How this review was built

Dickens & Rumi editorial
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15Scored categories
15Evidence notes
1Explicit 0/5 checks
Oct 22, 2026Last updated

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Recommended age14+

Strongest cautions

  • LGBTQIA characters5/5
  • Romance5/5
  • Alcohol or drugs2/5

Strongest positives

  • Positive messages4/5
  • Courage & resilience3/5
  • Diverse representation3/5

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What’s in it?

Products & advertising1/5
Why this rating?

The narrative is not built around brands, products, shopping, or urging readers to buy things.

Strong language2/5
Why this rating?

Features mild language and occasional teen colloquialisms.

LGBTQIA characters5/5
Why this rating?

The protagonists are lesbians, and the story focuses on their relationship and personal identities.

Romance5/5
Why this rating?

Romance drives the entire story: Alex and Molly’s matchmaking plan develops into mutual attraction, kissing, dating, and a committed relationship.

Frightening scenes1/5
Why this rating?

This is a lighthearted romantic comedy with no scary or frightening elements.

Sexual content & nudity2/5
Why this rating?

Contains mild sexual tension, kissing, and brief references to sexual experiences common in YA fiction.

Alcohol or drugs2/5
Why this rating?

Occasional mention of college social drinking, but not a primary focus.

Checked and not flagged

No concern recorded in these categories

These categories were explicitly scored 0/5 in the published review. This is not a guarantee that every edition or reader experience is identical.

Violence · 0/5

What’s good in it?

Courage & resilience3/5
Why this rating?

Characters demonstrate courage by being vulnerable and pursuing their authentic selves.

Creativity & curiosity2/5
Why this rating?

Encourages creative social strategies and emotional reflection.

Diverse representation3/5
Why this rating?

Explores diverse experiences within the LGBTQIA+ community with realistic character development.

Educational value1/5
Why this rating?

Focuses on social and emotional development rather than academic learning.

Kindness & empathy3/5
Why this rating?

Friends support one another and show empathy, although matchmaking and misunderstandings sometimes complicate their good intentions.

Positive messages4/5
Why this rating?

The story supports honesty, self-acceptance, communication, friendship, and respecting people’s identities rather than manipulating relationships.

Good role models3/5
Why this rating?

Alex and Molly are caring and growth-oriented, though they make immature choices and must learn to communicate honestly.

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