Dickens & Rumi
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HERE'S TO US

Age rating, content warnings & parent guide

Becky Albertalli and Adam Silvera

Is HERE'S TO US appropriate for your child? See the reviewed age guidance, content cautions, positive themes, and supporting evidence below.

Two lovers reconnect in this sequel to “What If It’s Us.” (Ages 14 and up)

Ages 14+Source checked

Why this age? Best suited to older teens because of relationship conflict, sexual references and situations, strong emotional themes, and some substance-related content; language and violence are limited. This is guidance, not a safety guarantee; reading level and family context may differ.

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Age guidanceAges 14+
Strongest cautionsLGBTQIA characters 5/5 · Romance 5/5 · Sexual content & nudity 3/5
Strongest positivesDiverse representation 4/5 · Positive messages 4/5
Recommendation3.5/5

Diverse representation; strongest caution: lgbtqia characters.

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What parents should know

Best suited to older teens because of relationship conflict, sexual references and situations, strong emotional themes, and some substance-related content; language and violence are limited. This is guidance, not a safety guarantee; reading level and family context may differ. Diverse representation; strongest caution: lgbtqia characters.

Readiness snapshotAge guidance: 14+Main watch-out: LGBTQIA characters 5/5
Recommendation 3.5/5

Editorial rating

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Dickens & Rumi editorial
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14Evidence notes
1Explicit 0/5 checks
Oct 22, 2026Last updated

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Recommended age14+

Strongest cautions

  • LGBTQIA characters5/5
  • Romance5/5
  • Sexual content & nudity3/5

Strongest positives

  • Diverse representation4/5
  • Positive messages4/5
  • Courage & resilience3/5

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What’s in it?

Products & advertising1/5
Why this rating?

Ordinary references to places, media, technology, or products may occur, but the story does not promote shopping or brands.

Strong language2/5
Why this rating?

Includes mild to moderate contemporary profanity.

LGBTQIA characters5/5
Why this rating?

The protagonists are gay males, and LGBTQIA representation is central to the narrative.

Romance5/5
Why this rating?

Romantic relationships are central to the plot, with dating, breakups, jealousy, reconciliation, and changing feelings among teen characters.

Sexual content & nudity3/5
Why this rating?

Contains references to sexual intimacy and relationships appropriate for the YA genre.

Alcohol or drugs2/5
Why this rating?

Brief mentions of social drinking in college settings.

Checked and not flagged

No concern recorded in these categories

These categories were explicitly scored 0/5 in the published review. This is not a guarantee that every edition or reader experience is identical.

Death of a character · 0/5

What’s good in it?

Courage & resilience3/5
Why this rating?

Characters show emotional courage by confronting heartbreak, identity questions, difficult conversations, and uncertainty about the future.

Creativity & curiosity2/5
Why this rating?

Reflects the imaginative ways people handle love and career paths.

Diverse representation4/5
Why this rating?

Includes varied LGBTQIA experiences and socially diverse characters with meaningful roles, though representation centers on the main protagonists.

Educational value1/5
Why this rating?

Offers incidental social-emotional insight into relationships, identity, and communication rather than formal instruction.

Kindness & empathy3/5
Why this rating?

Friendship, family care, empathy, and support are important, though characters sometimes hurt one another emotionally.

Positive messages4/5
Why this rating?

Emphasizes honest communication, accountability, respecting boundaries, emotional growth, friendship, and accepting that relationships can change.

Good role models3/5
Why this rating?

Characters make believable mistakes but can model self-reflection, apology, communication, and respect for others' autonomy.

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  2. How are identity and relationships presented, and how do they shape the characters’ experiences?
  3. Which choice in HERE'S TO US would you have made differently, and why?
  4. Who changed the most in HERE'S TO US, and what caused that change?
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