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The Boyfriend

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Robert Lawrence Stine · 1990

Is The Boyfriend appropriate for your child? See the reviewed age guidance, content cautions, positive themes, and supporting evidence below.

Explore the age guidance, content cautions, positive qualities, and supporting notes for The Boyfriend by Robert Lawrence Stine. This book is content notes include Frightening scenes, Romance, Violence; positive qualities include Courage & resilience, Creativity & curiosity.

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Age guidanceNot listed
Strongest cautionsFrightening scenes 4/5 · Romance 4/5 · Violence 3/5
Strongest positivesCourage & resilience 3/5 · Creativity & curiosity 2/5
Recommendation2.3/5

Courage & resilience; strongest caution: frightening scenes.

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Courage & resilience; strongest caution: frightening scenes.

Readiness snapshotMain watch-out: Frightening scenes 4/5
Recommendation 2.3/5

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Recommended ageNot listed

Strongest cautions

  • Frightening scenes4/5
  • Romance4/5
  • Violence3/5

Strongest positives

  • Courage & resilience3/5
  • Creativity & curiosity2/5
  • Good role models2/5

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What’s in it?

Death of a character1/5
Why this rating?

Death is not a central event or clearly shown; the horror plot involves threats and danger that may raise fear of death.

Strong language1/5
Why this rating?

Mild language consistent with a teen thriller.

Romance4/5
Why this rating?

A teen relationship and obsessive, unwanted romantic pursuit drive the story, though the relationship is portrayed as dangerous rather than healthy.

Frightening scenes4/5
Why this rating?

Builds suspense and psychological dread regarding the stalker.

Sexual content & nudity1/5
Why this rating?

Mild teen romantic tension and innuendo common in YA literature.

Violence3/5
Why this rating?

Includes scenes of stalking, physical intimidation, and menacing behavior.

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No concern recorded in these categories

These categories were explicitly scored 0/5 in the published review. This is not a guarantee that every edition or reader experience is identical.

Graphic injury · 0/5

What’s good in it?

Courage & resilience3/5
Why this rating?

Protagonist shows significant courage in confronting and escaping her stalker.

Creativity & curiosity2/5
Why this rating?

Engages the reader through suspenseful plotting and mystery elements.

Diverse representation1/5
Why this rating?

Available information suggests limited representation typical of mainstream teen horror from its period, with no notable range of identities or backgrounds.

Kindness & empathy1/5
Why this rating?

Limited due to the suspenseful nature of the plot.

Positive messages2/5
Why this rating?

Emphasizes trusting instincts and the dangers of ignoring red flags in relationships.

Good role models2/5
Why this rating?

Protagonist acts with increasing agency to escape a harmful situation.

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  2. Which moment felt most tense or frightening? What helped the characters handle fear?
  3. Which choice in The Boyfriend would you have made differently, and why?
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