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Tales from a Not-So Friendly Frenemy

Age rating, content warnings & parent guide

Rachel Renée Russell · 2009

Is Tales from a Not-So Friendly Frenemy appropriate for your child? See the reviewed age guidance, content cautions, positive themes, and supporting evidence below.

Explore the age guidance, content cautions, positive qualities, and supporting notes for Tales from a Not-So Friendly Frenemy by Rachel Renée Russell. This book is content notes include Romance, Products & advertising, Strong language; positive qualities include Good role models, Kindness & empathy.

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Is this likely to fit your family?

Age guidanceNot listed
Strongest cautionsRomance 2/5 · Products & advertising 1/5 · Strong language 1/5
Strongest positivesGood role models 3/5 · Kindness & empathy 3/5
Series positionBook 11 · Dork Diaries
Recommendation2.8/5

Good role models; strongest caution: romance.

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What parents should know

Good role models; strongest caution: romance.

Readiness snapshotMain watch-out: Romance 2/5
Recommendation 2.8/5

Editorial rating

How this review was built

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12Scored categories
12Evidence notes
2Explicit 0/5 checks
Nov 4, 2026Last updated

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Recommended ageNot listed

Strongest cautions

  • Romance2/5
  • Products & advertising1/5
  • Strong language1/5

Strongest positives

  • Good role models3/5
  • Kindness & empathy3/5
  • Positive messages3/5

Reading order

Series progression

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Next volumeBook 12 · Tales from a Not-So-Secret Crush CatastropheStrongest cautions: Romance 3/5 · Products & advertising 1/5Open next review →
  1. Book 1 · Tales from a Not-So-Fabulous Life
    Frightening scenes1/5Products & advertising1/5Romance1/5Strong language1/5Violence1/5
    Starting point
  2. Book 2 · TALES FROM A NOT-SO-POPULAR PARTY GIRLAges 9+
    Romance2/5Frightening scenes1/5Products & advertising1/5Strong language1/5
    About the same
  3. Book 3 · Tales from a Not-So-Talented Pop Star
    Romance2/5Frightening scenes1/5Products & advertising1/5Strong language1/5Violence1/5
    About the same
  4. Book 4 · Tales from a Not-So-Graceful Ice Princess
    Frightening scenes1/5Products & advertising1/5Romance1/5Strong language1/5Violence1/5
    About the same
  5. Book 5 · Tales from a Not-So-smart Miss Know-it-all
    Romance2/5Products & advertising1/5Strong language1/5Violence1/5
    About the same
  6. Book 6 · Tales from a Not-So-Happy Heartbreaker
    Romance3/5Frightening scenes1/5Products & advertising1/5Strong language1/5Violence1/5
    Gets more intense
  7. Book 7 · Tales from a Not-So-Glam TV Star
    Romance2/5Frightening scenes1/5Products & advertising1/5Strong language1/5Violence1/5
    About the same
  8. Book 8 · Tales from a Not-So-Happily Ever After
    Frightening scenes1/5Products & advertising1/5Romance1/5Strong language1/5Violence1/5
    About the same
  9. Book 9 · Tales from a Not-So-Dorky Drama Queen
    Romance2/5Frightening scenes1/5Products & advertising1/5Strong language1/5Violence1/5
    About the same
  10. Book 10 · Tales From A Not-So-Perfect Pet Sitter
    Romance2/5Products & advertising1/5Strong language1/5
    Gets gentler
  11. Book 11 · Tales from a Not-So Friendly Frenemy
    Romance2/5Frightening scenes1/5Products & advertising1/5Strong language1/5Violence1/5
    Gets more intense
  12. Book 12 · Tales from a Not-So-Secret Crush Catastrophe
    Romance3/5Frightening scenes1/5Products & advertising1/5Strong language1/5
    About the same
  13. Book 13 · Tales from a Not-So-Happy Birthday
    Frightening scenes1/5Products & advertising1/5Romance1/5Strong language1/5Violence1/5
    About the same
  14. Book 14 · Tales from a Not-So-Best Friend Forever
    Frightening scenes1/5Products & advertising1/5Romance1/5Strong language1/5
    About the same
  15. Book 15 · Tales from a Not-So-Posh Paris Adventure
    Romance2/5Frightening scenes1/5Products & advertising1/5Strong language1/5Violence1/5
    Gets more intense
  16. Book 16 · Tales from a Not-So-Bratty Little Sister
    Frightening scenes1/5Products & advertising1/5Romance1/5Strong language1/5Violence1/5
    About the same

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What’s in it?

Products & advertising1/5
Why this rating?

Mentions of brands typical in teen life.

Strong language1/5
Why this rating?

Very mild name-calling or school-aged insults.

Romance2/5
Why this rating?

Middle-school crushes and friendship complications are recurring, with innocent romantic feelings and light relationship drama.

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No concern recorded in these categories

These categories were explicitly scored 0/5 in the published review. This is not a guarantee that every edition or reader experience is identical.

Frightening scenes · 0/5Violence · 0/5

What’s good in it?

Courage & resilience2/5
Why this rating?

Character shows social bravery.

Creativity & curiosity2/5
Why this rating?

Encourages creative writing and journaling.

Diverse representation1/5
Why this rating?

Diverse background of friends but not a central focus.

Educational value1/5
Why this rating?

Focuses on social-emotional learning and conflict resolution.

Kindness & empathy3/5
Why this rating?

Emphasizes the value of being a good friend.

Positive messages3/5
Why this rating?

Strong messages favor authentic friendship, empathy, perseverance, resisting popularity pressure and addressing hurtful behavior.

Good role models3/5
Why this rating?

Protagonist learns from her mistakes.

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  1. Which character was the best role model, and what did they do that you admired?
  2. How did relationships or romance affect the characters’ choices?
  3. Which choice in Tales from a Not-So Friendly Frenemy would you have made differently, and why?
  4. Who changed the most in Tales from a Not-So Friendly Frenemy, and what caused that change?
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