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You don't own me

Mary Higgins Clark; Alafair Burke · 2018

Explore the age guidance, content cautions, positive qualities, and supporting notes for You don't own me by Mary Higgins Clark; Alafair Burke. This book is content notes include Death of a character, Frightening scenes, Violence; positive qualities include Courage & resilience, Positive messages.

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Strongest cautions

  • Death of a character4/5
  • Frightening scenes3/5
  • Violence3/5

Strongest positives

  • Courage & resilience3/5
  • Positive messages3/5
  • Creativity & curiosity2/5

What’s in it?

Death of a character4/5
Why this rating?

Murder and its consequences are central to the plot, with investigation and emotional effects surrounding the deaths.

Graphic injury1/5
Why this rating?

Casual mentions of crime scenes and medical details, but not graphic.

Strong language2/5
Why this rating?

Occasional mild swearing consistent with adult fiction.

Romance2/5
Why this rating?

Mild romantic subplots exist but are not the main focus.

Frightening scenes3/5
Why this rating?

An adult investigative thriller with stalking, murder-related danger, pursuit and sustained suspense. The tone is tense, but it is not primarily horror or graphic fright.

Sexual content & nudity1/5
Why this rating?

Minor references to affairs and relationships.

Alcohol or drugs1/5
Why this rating?

Social drinking occasionally occurs.

Violence3/5
Why this rating?

Contains depictions of murder and threats typical of a crime thriller.

What’s good in it?

Courage & resilience3/5
Why this rating?

Protagonists show bravery in confronting dangerous suspects.

Creativity & curiosity2/5
Why this rating?

Engages the reader in deduction and mystery-solving.

Diverse representation2/5
Why this rating?

The story appears to include a generally varied professional cast, but diversity is not a major focus and character-background detail is limited.

Educational value1/5
Why this rating?

Offers insight into investigative journalism and forensic procedures.

Kindness & empathy1/5
Why this rating?

Displays of professional support and teamwork.

Positive messages3/5
Why this rating?

Emphasizes the importance of truth, justice, and accountability.

Good role models2/5
Why this rating?

The protagonist is a dedicated professional working to solve cold cases.

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  2. How did the story approach death or loss? What helped the characters cope?
  3. Which choice in You don't own me would you have made differently, and why?
  4. Who changed the most in You don't own me, and what caused that change?
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