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I'LL GIVE YOU THE SUN

Jandy Nelson

Explore the age guidance, content cautions, positive qualities, and supporting notes for I'LL GIVE YOU THE SUN by Jandy Nelson. This book is recommended for ages 15+; content notes include Death of a character, LGBTQIA characters, Romance; positive qualities include Creativity & curiosity, Courage & resilience.

Ages 15+Source checked

Why this age? Mature YA themes include a sudden parental death, grief, infidelity, first sex, underage drinking, sexual identity, and a near-suicide attempt. The material is emotionally intense but ultimately focused on support, honesty, and healing. This is guidance, not a safety guarantee; reading level and family context may differ.

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Recommended age15+

Strongest cautions

  • Death of a character4/5
  • LGBTQIA characters4/5
  • Romance4/5

Strongest positives

  • Creativity & curiosity5/5
  • Courage & resilience4/5
  • Positive messages4/5

What’s in it?

Death of a character4/5
Why this rating?

The death of a parent is a central catalyst for the plot and the characters' grief.

Graphic injury1/5
Why this rating?

No detailed gore; the aftermath of an accident is mentioned but not graphically described.

Strong language2/5
Why this rating?

Includes occasional strong language consistent with contemporary teen dialogue.

LGBTQIA characters4/5
Why this rating?

Features a central gay protagonist dealing with his orientation and relationship.

Romance4/5
Why this rating?

Features multiple romantic subplots and explorations of young love and attraction.

Frightening scenes3/5
Why this rating?

Emotional turmoil, a perceived ghost, sudden parental death, and a near-suicide leap from a cliff may be frightening or upsetting, though this is not a horror story.

Sexual content & nudity3/5
Why this rating?

Contains depictions of teenage sexual exploration and references to sexual experiences.

Alcohol or drugs3/5
Why this rating?

Noah gets drunk during a drinking game, and alcohol use contributes to a dangerous emotional crisis.

Violence2/5
Why this rating?

Limited physical violence; family conflict and a fatal automobile accident are important, but sustained violent action is not central.

What’s good in it?

Courage & resilience4/5
Why this rating?

Characters confront grief, sexuality, guilt, family betrayal, and painful truths; asking for help and rebuilding trust are valued.

Creativity & curiosity5/5
Why this rating?

Art is a central theme; the characters express themselves deeply through their work.

Diverse representation3/5
Why this rating?

Diverse representation of sexual orientation and artistic perspectives.

Educational value2/5
Why this rating?

Art-making, sculpture, artistic ambition, and emotional self-understanding are woven substantially into the story, though it is not instructional.

Kindness & empathy3/5
Why this rating?

Mentorship, sibling reconciliation, romantic support, and intervention during a suicide crisis show meaningful empathy and care.

Positive messages4/5
Why this rating?

Strong themes support honesty, accountability, empathy, creative expression, grief processing, reconciliation, and seeking help in crisis.

Good role models3/5
Why this rating?

Characters make serious mistakes, including deception and sabotage, but ultimately take responsibility, support one another, and pursue healing.

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  1. What was the most imaginative idea in the story, and what would you add to it?
  2. How did the story approach death or loss? What helped the characters cope?
  3. Which choice in I'LL GIVE YOU THE SUN would you have made differently, and why?
  4. Who changed the most in I'LL GIVE YOU THE SUN, and what caused that change?
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