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A Journal for Jordan

2021

Based on the true story of First Sergeant Charles Monroe King, a soldier deployed to Iraq begins to keep a journal of love and advice for his infant son. Back at home, senior New York Times editor Dana Canedy revisits the story of her unlikely, life-altering relationship with King and his enduring devotion to her and their child.

Ages 13+Source checked

Why this age? PG-13 drama involving military deployment, war-related danger and death, grief, and mature romantic themes. The emotional treatment may be challenging for younger viewers. This is guidance, not a safety guarantee; reading level and family context may differ.

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Recommended age13+

Strongest cautions

  • Death of a character4/5
  • Romance4/5
  • Frightening scenes2/5

Strongest positives

  • Courage & resilience4/5
  • Good role models4/5
  • Positive messages4/5

What’s in it?

Products & advertising1/5
Why this rating?

Minor instances of brand presence common in contemporary realistic films.

Death of a character4/5
Why this rating?

The story centers on a soldier’s death and the lasting grief and memories experienced by his partner and child.

Graphic injury1/5
Why this rating?

War-related injuries and danger may appear, but graphic blood or wounds are not a prominent focus.

Strong language2/5
Why this rating?

Some moderate profanity is likely in military and adult situations, but strong language is not a major focus.

Religious themes1/5
Why this rating?

Faith or funeral-related elements may appear in the military and family context, but religion is not a central theme.

Romance4/5
Why this rating?

The couple’s relationship and love story are the film’s central subject.

Frightening scenes2/5
Why this rating?

Tense moments related to military deployment and news of casualties.

Sexual content & nudity2/5
Why this rating?

Includes some romantic intimacy and implied sexual activity appropriate for a PG-13 drama.

Alcohol or drugs1/5
Why this rating?

Adults may be shown drinking socially, without substance use being central or presented as especially appealing.

Violence2/5
Why this rating?

Includes scenes of military life and conflict in Iraq, though not gratuitous or overly gory.

What’s good in it?

Courage & resilience4/5
Why this rating?

Highlights the courage required to serve and to parent through loss.

Creativity & curiosity2/5
Why this rating?

Shows the unique and imaginative way a parent connects with their child despite physical absence.

Diverse representation3/5
Why this rating?

Features a predominantly Black cast in a story focusing on their authentic life experiences and relationship dynamics.

Educational value2/5
Why this rating?

Offers insight into military life and the emotional weight of long-term deployment.

Kindness & empathy3/5
Why this rating?

The narrative is driven by the desire to leave a legacy of love and guidance for a child.

Positive messages4/5
Why this rating?

The film emphasizes love, honor, family responsibility, remembrance, parenting, and the enduring effects of service and sacrifice.

Good role models4/5
Why this rating?

The protagonist is portrayed as a dedicated, thoughtful, and honorable father and soldier.

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  2. How did the story approach death or loss? What helped the characters cope?
  3. Which choice in A Journal for Jordan would you have made differently, and why?
  4. Who changed the most in A Journal for Jordan, and what caused that change?
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