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YOU'VE REACHED SAM

Dustin Thao

After the death of her boyfriend, Sam, Julie can still reach him via cellphone. (Ages 12 to 18)

Ages 14+Source checked

Why this age? Teen-appropriate prose and romance, but the sudden death, traumatic accident aftermath, guilt, and sustained grief require emotional maturity. This is guidance, not a safety guarantee; reading level and family context may differ.

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Recommended age14+

Strongest cautions

  • Death of a character5/5
  • Romance4/5
  • Frightening scenes2/5

Strongest positives

  • Courage & resilience4/5
  • Kindness & empathy4/5
  • Positive messages4/5

What’s in it?

Death of a character5/5
Why this rating?

Sam’s sudden death is the central event, and the story closely follows Julie’s guilt, grief, denial, and eventual acceptance.

Graphic injury2/5
Why this rating?

Mentions of severe injuries sustained in a car crash occur, but the focus is on the emotional weight rather than visceral description.

Strong language1/5
Why this rating?

Occasional mild language common to contemporary young adult fiction.

LGBTQIA characters2/5
Why this rating?

An LGBTQIA character and related feelings appear to be part of the cast, but LGBTQIA identity and relationships are secondary to Julie’s grief story.

Romance4/5
Why this rating?

Julie and Sam’s loving teenage relationship, shared future, memories, and farewell are central to the novel.

Frightening scenes2/5
Why this rating?

A sudden death, haunting accident aftermath, and calls from a deceased boyfriend create sustained emotional and supernatural unease, though this is not a horror-focused story.

Sexual content & nudity1/5
Why this rating?

The focus is on emotional intimacy rather than sexual content.

Alcohol or drugs1/5
Why this rating?

References to social settings like bonfires where substances might be present are light and incidental.

Violence2/5
Why this rating?

A fatal car accident is central, with brief descriptions of the crash and Sam trying to reach help; there is little ongoing violence.

What’s good in it?

Courage & resilience4/5
Why this rating?

Julie confronts painful memories, relinquishes the supernatural connection, accepts an altered future, and chooses to keep living.

Creativity & curiosity2/5
Why this rating?

The supernatural phone premise and Julie’s writing and memory-making encourage imagination, while the story explores inventive emotional symbolism.

Diverse representation2/5
Why this rating?

Features a multi-ethnic cast of characters depicted as complex individuals.

Educational value1/5
Why this rating?

Offers insight into the complex psychological stages of grief and healing.

Kindness & empathy4/5
Why this rating?

Friends and family express concern, Julie helps Sam’s younger brother, and the characters support one another through bereavement.

Positive messages4/5
Why this rating?

It strongly emphasizes grieving honestly, accepting what cannot be changed, maintaining relationships, and continuing to live after loss.

Good role models3/5
Why this rating?

Julie initially isolates herself and neglects responsibilities, but she ultimately accepts support, helps James, repairs connections, and moves forward.

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  1. What did courage look like in this story? Was being brave always the same as being fearless?
  2. How did the story approach death or loss? What helped the characters cope?
  3. Which choice in YOU'VE REACHED SAM would you have made differently, and why?
  4. Who changed the most in YOU'VE REACHED SAM, and what caused that change?
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