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LET THEM STARE

Jonathan Van Ness and Julie Murphy

A queer teen purchases a vintage bag that is haunted by a drag performer's ghost. (Ages 14 and up)

Ages 13+Source checked

Why this age? Best suited to teens because of identity exploration, social and emotional conflict, romance, and young-adult reading complexity; content appears non-graphic and generally affirming. This is guidance, not a safety guarantee; reading level and family context may differ.

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Recommended age13+

Strongest cautions

  • LGBTQIA characters5/5
  • Romance3/5
  • Strong language2/5

Strongest positives

  • Courage & resilience4/5
  • Diverse representation4/5
  • Good role models4/5

What’s in it?

Strong language2/5
Why this rating?

Occasional mild language consistent with teen dialogue.

LGBTQIA characters5/5
Why this rating?

Central theme involves a non-binary protagonist navigating their identity and social environment.

Romance3/5
Why this rating?

Features age-appropriate crushes and romantic feelings typical of YA literature.

Frightening scenes1/5
Why this rating?

No scary themes or threats.

Violence1/5
Why this rating?

Includes minor instances of school-based bullying and verbal confrontation.

What’s good in it?

Courage & resilience4/5
Why this rating?

The protagonist shows immense bravery in living authentically despite external pressure.

Creativity & curiosity3/5
Why this rating?

Encourages creative self-expression through skating and performance.

Diverse representation4/5
Why this rating?

Highlights diverse experiences within the LGBTQIA spectrum and intersectional identities.

Educational value1/5
Why this rating?

Offers insight into the non-binary experience and the realities of small-town school social dynamics.

Kindness & empathy4/5
Why this rating?

Emphasis on the importance of support systems and being kind to oneself.

Positive messages4/5
Why this rating?

Strong message about self-acceptance, authenticity, and the power of finding one's community.

Good role models4/5
Why this rating?

The protagonist demonstrates significant personal growth and resilience.

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  1. What did courage look like in this story? Was being brave always the same as being fearless?
  2. How are identity and relationships presented, and how do they shape the characters’ experiences?
  3. Which choice in LET THEM STARE would you have made differently, and why?
  4. Who changed the most in LET THEM STARE, and what caused that change?
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