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HERE'S TO US

Becky Albertalli and Adam Silvera

Two lovers reconnect in this sequel to “What If It’s Us.” (Ages 14 and up)

Ages 14+Source checked

Why this age? Best suited to older teens because of relationship conflict, sexual references and situations, strong emotional themes, and some substance-related content; language and violence are limited. This is guidance, not a safety guarantee; reading level and family context may differ.

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Recommended age14+

Strongest cautions

  • LGBTQIA characters5/5
  • Romance5/5
  • Sexual content & nudity3/5

Strongest positives

  • Diverse representation4/5
  • Positive messages4/5
  • Courage & resilience3/5

What’s in it?

Products & advertising1/5
Why this rating?

Ordinary references to places, media, technology, or products may occur, but the story does not promote shopping or brands.

Death of a character1/5
Why this rating?

There are no major character deaths depicted.

Strong language2/5
Why this rating?

Includes mild to moderate contemporary profanity.

LGBTQIA characters5/5
Why this rating?

The protagonists are gay males, and LGBTQIA representation is central to the narrative.

Romance5/5
Why this rating?

Romantic relationships are central to the plot, with dating, breakups, jealousy, reconciliation, and changing feelings among teen characters.

Sexual content & nudity3/5
Why this rating?

Contains references to sexual intimacy and relationships appropriate for the YA genre.

Alcohol or drugs2/5
Why this rating?

Brief mentions of social drinking in college settings.

What’s good in it?

Courage & resilience3/5
Why this rating?

Characters show emotional courage by confronting heartbreak, identity questions, difficult conversations, and uncertainty about the future.

Creativity & curiosity2/5
Why this rating?

Reflects the imaginative ways people handle love and career paths.

Diverse representation4/5
Why this rating?

Includes varied LGBTQIA experiences and socially diverse characters with meaningful roles, though representation centers on the main protagonists.

Educational value1/5
Why this rating?

Offers incidental social-emotional insight into relationships, identity, and communication rather than formal instruction.

Kindness & empathy3/5
Why this rating?

Friendship, family care, empathy, and support are important, though characters sometimes hurt one another emotionally.

Positive messages4/5
Why this rating?

Emphasizes honest communication, accountability, respecting boundaries, emotional growth, friendship, and accepting that relationships can change.

Good role models3/5
Why this rating?

Characters make believable mistakes but can model self-reflection, apology, communication, and respect for others' autonomy.

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  1. Whose perspective did the story help you understand better?
  2. How are identity and relationships presented, and how do they shape the characters’ experiences?
  3. Which choice in HERE'S TO US would you have made differently, and why?
  4. Who changed the most in HERE'S TO US, and what caused that change?
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