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Rules for ghosting

Ammi-Joan Paquette · 2013

Explore the age guidance, content cautions, positive qualities, and supporting notes for Rules for ghosting by Ammi-Joan Paquette. This book is content notes include Death of a character, Frightening scenes, Romance; positive qualities include Courage & resilience, Creativity & curiosity.

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Strongest cautions

  • Death of a character4/5
  • Frightening scenes3/5
  • Romance2/5

Strongest positives

  • Courage & resilience4/5
  • Creativity & curiosity4/5
  • Positive messages4/5

What’s in it?

Death of a character4/5
Why this rating?

Death and the experience of being a ghost are central to the story, with grief and loss treated as important emotional themes.

Strong language1/5
Why this rating?

Mild teen colloquialisms; no offensive language.

Romance2/5
Why this rating?

There are age-appropriate crush or dating elements, but romance is secondary to the supernatural story and emotional relationships.

Frightening scenes3/5
Why this rating?

Ghosts, eerie settings, and supernatural encounters create moderate spooky tension, though the middle-grade tone keeps it from being intensely frightening.

Sexual content & nudity1/5
Why this rating?

Mild romantic tension and teenage flirtation.

Violence1/5
Why this rating?

Contains brief, mild verbal bullying.

What’s good in it?

Courage & resilience4/5
Why this rating?

Requires significant internal courage for the protagonist to be herself.

Creativity & curiosity4/5
Why this rating?

Its inventive ghostly premise and imaginative rules encourage curiosity, perspective-taking, and creative thinking.

Diverse representation1/5
Why this rating?

The story appears focused on a specific young protagonist, with limited evidence of substantial representation across backgrounds or identities.

Educational value1/5
Why this rating?

The story offers incidental lessons about grief, empathy, and social relationships, but teaching real-world knowledge is not its main purpose.

Kindness & empathy3/5
Why this rating?

Emphasizes the impact of empathy and positive peer support.

Positive messages4/5
Why this rating?

Focuses on the importance of self-acceptance and authenticity.

Good role models3/5
Why this rating?

The protagonist experiences growth while learning to overcome fear.

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  2. How did the story approach death or loss? What helped the characters cope?
  3. Which choice in Rules for ghosting would you have made differently, and why?
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