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YOU GO FIRST

Erin Entrada Kelly

Connected only by an online Scrabble game, Charlotte and Ben overcome life's challenges. (Ages 8 to 12)

Ages 10+Source checked

Why this age? The book explores bullying, parental separation, illness, loneliness, and emotional resilience in an accessible middle-grade narrative. Some situations may prompt discussion with younger or sensitive readers. This is guidance, not a safety guarantee; reading level and family context may differ.

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Recommended age10+

Strongest cautions

  • Death of a character1/5
  • Frightening scenes1/5
  • Products & advertising1/5

Strongest positives

  • Good role models4/5
  • Kindness & empathy4/5
  • Positive messages4/5

What’s in it?

Products & advertising1/5
Why this rating?

References to games like Scrabble are incidental.

Death of a character1/5
Why this rating?

Reflections on loss or life changes, but no central death event.

Strong language1/5
Why this rating?

Very mild language, mostly school-yard social tension.

Romance1/5
Why this rating?

Minimal, age-appropriate crushes.

Frightening scenes1/5
Why this rating?

Family problems, bullying, and uncertainty may feel tense or upsetting, but the story has little conventional horror or sustained danger.

Violence1/5
Why this rating?

Includes minor instances of school bullying, but no physical violence.

What’s good in it?

Courage & resilience3/5
Why this rating?

Characters show courage in facing their social and personal fears.

Creativity & curiosity3/5
Why this rating?

Encourages communication and finding creative ways to support friends.

Diverse representation2/5
Why this rating?

Portrays distinct backgrounds and family dynamics authentically.

Educational value2/5
Why this rating?

Explores social-emotional intelligence and communication skills.

Kindness & empathy4/5
Why this rating?

Empathy and reaching out to others is a central theme.

Positive messages4/5
Why this rating?

Focuses on empathy, the importance of genuine connection, and resilience.

Good role models4/5
Why this rating?

The protagonists are well-rounded, relatable, and show growth.

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  1. Which character was the best role model, and what did they do that you admired?
  2. How did the story approach death or loss? What helped the characters cope?
  3. Which choice in YOU GO FIRST would you have made differently, and why?
  4. Who changed the most in YOU GO FIRST, and what caused that change?
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