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MY LIFE AS AN ICE CREAM SANDWICH

Ibi Zoboi

A young girl's cosmic imagination helps her cope with a move from Alabama to Harlem, N.Y. (Ages 10 to 12)

Ages 9+Source checked

Why this age? Best suited to middle-grade readers; themes include relocation, family expectations, friendship conflicts, racial and cultural identity, and emotional adjustment, with limited peril and no significant sexual content. This is guidance, not a safety guarantee; reading level and family context may differ.

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Recommended age9+

Strongest cautions

  • Death of a character1/5
  • Frightening scenes1/5
  • Products & advertising1/5

Strongest positives

  • Creativity & curiosity5/5
  • Courage & resilience4/5
  • Diverse representation4/5

What’s in it?

Products & advertising1/5
Why this rating?

Brief mentions of 1980s pop culture brands and snacks.

Death of a character1/5
Why this rating?

No central death themes.

Strong language1/5
Why this rating?

Very mild language, mostly typical of school-age teasing.

Frightening scenes1/5
Why this rating?

Mild tension regarding social exclusion and navigating a new environment.

Violence1/5
Why this rating?

Includes minor instances of bullying and peer aggression.

What’s good in it?

Courage & resilience4/5
Why this rating?

Ebony-Grace displays courage in staying true to her passions.

Creativity & curiosity5/5
Why this rating?

Science fiction, space exploration, imagination, storytelling, and inventive ways of interpreting the world are central to the novel.

Diverse representation4/5
Why this rating?

Black characters, family histories, regional experiences, and community perspectives are central and portrayed with individuality and agency.

Educational value2/5
Why this rating?

Offers insight into 1980s urban culture and the importance of storytelling.

Kindness & empathy3/5
Why this rating?

Empathy and friendship development are central to the plot.

Positive messages4/5
Why this rating?

Strong themes encourage belonging, empathy, friendship, family connection, resilience, imagination, and respecting people whose experiences differ from one's own.

Good role models4/5
Why this rating?

Protagonist demonstrates resilience and curiosity.

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  1. What was the most imaginative idea in the story, and what would you add to it?
  2. How did the story approach death or loss? What helped the characters cope?
  3. Which choice in MY LIFE AS AN ICE CREAM SANDWICH would you have made differently, and why?
  4. Who changed the most in MY LIFE AS AN ICE CREAM SANDWICH, and what caused that change?
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