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Four Christmases

2008

Brad and Kate have made something of an art form out of avoiding their families during the holidays, but this year their foolproof plan is about go bust -- big time. Stuck at the city airport after all departing flights are canceled, the couple is embarrassed to see their ruse exposed to the world by an overzealous television reporter. Now, Brad and Kate are left with precious little choice other than to swallow their pride and suffer the rounds.

Ages 13+Source checked

Why this age? The PG-13 film combines adult relationship and pregnancy themes, sexual humor, family conflict, crude comedy, and some slapstick violence. Younger teens may need context for its mature jokes and relationship issues. This is guidance, not a safety guarantee; reading level and family context may differ.

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Recommended age13+

Strongest cautions

  • Romance4/5
  • Products & advertising2/5
  • Religious themes2/5

Strongest positives

  • Positive messages3/5
  • Courage & resilience2/5
  • Creativity & curiosity2/5

What’s in it?

Products & advertising2/5
Why this rating?

Standard holiday gift-giving depictions, but no aggressive commercialization.

Graphic injury1/5
Why this rating?

Minor injuries from physical comedy are depicted, but no graphic or excessive gore.

Strong language2/5
Why this rating?

Includes some mild profanity and comedic insults.

Religious themes2/5
Why this rating?

A church service, pastor, and Christmas pageant are part of one family visit, though faith is not the film's central subject.

Romance4/5
Why this rating?

The central story follows Brad and Kate's romantic relationship, conflict about marriage and children, breakup fears, and renewed commitment.

Frightening scenes1/5
Why this rating?

Not intended to be scary.

Sexual content & nudity2/5
Why this rating?

Contains suggestive humor, innuendo, and discussions about pregnancy and family planning.

Alcohol or drugs1/5
Why this rating?

Occasional social drinking typical of adult holiday gatherings.

Violence2/5
Why this rating?

Brad is beaten by his cage-fighting brothers, and he falls from a roof; incidents are comedic rather than seriously graphic.

What’s good in it?

Courage & resilience2/5
Why this rating?

Brad and Kate show emotional courage by confronting family history, discussing their future, and changing long-avoided patterns.

Creativity & curiosity2/5
Why this rating?

Comic role-play, a holiday pageant, games, and improvised problem-solving provide some playful inventiveness, though creativity is incidental.

Diverse representation1/5
Why this rating?

Features a diverse supporting cast, though characters largely play into sitcom archetypes.

Educational value1/5
Why this rating?

It offers incidental social and relationship lessons about communication, family dynamics, and responsibility rather than formal instruction.

Kindness & empathy2/5
Why this rating?

Family members are frequently intrusive or embarrassing, but the story ultimately values reconciliation, care, family time, and emotional support.

Positive messages3/5
Why this rating?

It emphasizes honesty, family connection, accepting responsibility, confronting fears, and making thoughtful choices about commitment and parenthood.

Good role models2/5
Why this rating?

Brad and Kate initially lie and avoid difficult issues, but they learn honesty and commitment; family members are mixed and often dysfunctional examples.

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