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50 First Dates

2004

Henry is a player skilled at seducing women. But when this veterinarian meets Lucy, a girl with a quirky problem when it comes to total recall, he realizes it's possible to fall in love all over again…and again, and again. That's because the delightful Lucy has no short-term memory, so Henry must woo her day after day until he finally sweeps her off her feet.

Ages 13+Source checked

Why this age? PG-13 romantic comedy with frequent sexual references and humor, crude language, substance references, relationship deception, and emotionally weighty themes involving brain injury and memory loss. This is guidance, not a safety guarantee; reading level and family context may differ.

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Recommended age13+

Strongest cautions

  • Romance5/5
  • Sexual content & nudity3/5
  • Strong language3/5

Strongest positives

  • Kindness & empathy4/5
  • Courage & resilience3/5
  • Creativity & curiosity3/5

What’s in it?

Products & advertising1/5
Why this rating?

Casual placement of real-world brands and cultural products like The Beach Boys.

Death of a character1/5
Why this rating?

Mention of a deceased mother and the loss of a parent; the character's condition results from a past trauma.

Strong language3/5
Why this rating?

The comedy includes recurring profanity, crude jokes and sexualized humor, but the language is not presented as extreme or constant.

Romance5/5
Why this rating?

Romance drives the entire story: repeated dates, kisses, commitment, breakup, reconciliation, marriage and family life.

Frightening scenes2/5
Why this rating?

The car accident is distressing, but not portrayed in a horror context.

Sexual content & nudity3/5
Why this rating?

Contains frequent sexual innuendo and suggestive dialogue typical of Adam Sandler comedies.

Alcohol or drugs2/5
Why this rating?

Ula is described as marijuana-smoking, and Lucy's brother is steroid-addicted; these are comic or plot elements rather than the main focus.

Violence1/5
Why this rating?

Includes slapstick comedy violence and a car accident scene.

What’s good in it?

Courage & resilience3/5
Why this rating?

Lucy faces a life-changing disability with creativity and resilience, while Henry and her family adapt to demanding circumstances.

Creativity & curiosity3/5
Why this rating?

The characters invent videos, routines, journals and other creative systems to help Lucy navigate daily memory loss.

Diverse representation2/5
Why this rating?

Features a diverse Hawaiian setting, though the leads are white.

Educational value1/5
Why this rating?

Provides a fictionalized depiction of anterograde amnesia.

Kindness & empathy4/5
Why this rating?

Family, friends and Henry repeatedly support Lucy and help her understand her condition, though some concealment causes understandable harm.

Positive messages3/5
Why this rating?

The story emphasizes honesty, commitment, adapting to disability, respecting emotional needs, and building a life despite difficult circumstances.

Good role models2/5
Why this rating?

The protagonist demonstrates significant selflessness and growth.

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  1. Where did a character show kindness or empathy, and what changed because of it?
  2. How did relationships or romance affect the characters’ choices?
  3. Which choice in 50 First Dates would you have made differently, and why?
  4. Who changed the most in 50 First Dates, and what caused that change?
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