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BOYING UP

Mayim Bialik

The neuroscientist and star of "The Big Bang Theory" discusses what it means for a boy to become a man. (Ages 12 and up)

Ages 10+Source checked

Why this age? Best suited to preteens and young teens because it discusses puberty, reproductive health, body image, emotions, and relationships in an educational, age-appropriate way. This is guidance, not a safety guarantee; reading level and family context may differ.

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Recommended age10+

Strongest cautions

  • Romance2/5
  • Sexual content & nudity2/5
  • Alcohol or drugs1/5

Strongest positives

  • Educational value4/5
  • Good role models4/5
  • Positive messages4/5

What’s in it?

Strong language1/5
Why this rating?

Plain, age-appropriate anatomical and body-related terminology may appear; strong profanity is not central.

LGBTQIA characters1/5
Why this rating?

Includes inclusive language regarding identity and relationships.

Romance2/5
Why this rating?

Discusses crushes and romantic feelings as part of healthy development.

Frightening scenes1/5
Why this rating?

No scary content.

Sexual content & nudity2/5
Why this rating?

Educational discussion of puberty, reproductive anatomy, sexual development, consent, and related health topics may appear without erotic framing.

Alcohol or drugs1/5
Why this rating?

Mentions substances in the context of health warnings and peer pressure.

What’s good in it?

Courage & resilience3/5
Why this rating?

Encourages being authentic and standing up for one's values.

Creativity & curiosity1/5
Why this rating?

Encourages thinking critically about personal growth and choices.

Diverse representation2/5
Why this rating?

Attempts to include diverse experiences and perspectives in development.

Educational value4/5
Why this rating?

Education is the central purpose, covering puberty, health, hygiene, emotions, relationships, and adolescent development.

Kindness & empathy3/5
Why this rating?

Encourages empathy towards self and others.

Positive messages4/5
Why this rating?

It strongly promotes informed self-care, confidence, emotional awareness, respect, responsibility, and seeking reliable help.

Good role models4/5
Why this rating?

The guidance encourages honest, responsible behavior and constructive ways to handle physical and emotional change.

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  1. What is one new thing you learned or became curious about?
  2. How did relationships or romance affect the characters’ choices?
  3. Which choice in BOYING UP would you have made differently, and why?
  4. Who changed the most in BOYING UP, and what caused that change?
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