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A Separation

2011

A married couple are faced with a difficult decision – to improve the life of their child by moving to another country or to stay in Iran and look after a deteriorating parent who has Alzheimer's disease.

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Strongest cautions

  • Religious themes3/5
  • Violence3/5
  • Death of a character2/5

Strongest positives

  • Positive messages4/5
  • Courage & resilience3/5
  • Diverse representation3/5

What’s in it?

Death of a character2/5
Why this rating?

The film concerns a miscarriage and the deteriorating health of an elderly character.

Graphic injury1/5
Why this rating?

No graphic gore is present.

Strong language2/5
Why this rating?

Occasional heated exchanges, but not characterized by strong profanity.

Religious themes3/5
Why this rating?

The caregiver is deeply religious, and swearing on the Quran is a pivotal plot point.

Romance2/5
Why this rating?

Focuses on the dissolution of a marriage rather than romantic content.

Frightening scenes2/5
Why this rating?

The film has a high level of psychological tension throughout due to the legal conflicts.

Violence3/5
Why this rating?

Includes intense arguments, physical altercations, and a husband hitting himself in frustration.

What’s good in it?

Courage & resilience3/5
Why this rating?

Characters face hardship, legal danger, caregiving burdens, and painful truths; some acts show moral courage while others reflect fear or pressure.

Creativity & curiosity2/5
Why this rating?

The moral ambiguity and family conflicts invite thoughtful reflection, but imaginative play or creative problem-solving is not a central focus.

Diverse representation3/5
Why this rating?

Authentic, nuanced depiction of different social classes within Iran.

Educational value2/5
Why this rating?

It offers substantial insight into Iranian family life, class, caregiving, legal processes, and ethical dilemmas, though education is not its primary purpose.

Kindness & empathy2/5
Why this rating?

Family care and attempts to help are present, but stress, suspicion, anger, and competing obligations repeatedly undermine compassion.

Positive messages4/5
Why this rating?

Explores the burden of truth and the consequences of moral choices.

Good role models3/5
Why this rating?

Characters show care and responsibility but also lie, lose their tempers, and make morally compromised choices, inviting nuanced discussion.

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